Kini.....

Firstly, Assalammualaikum...

Today's story isn't about you or me,
but its about opinion...
my opinion about what I upset for.

One thing is, about couple issue,
not an halal couple but the haraam one...

free-hair women with pacak hair guys as for example,
we usually see them everywhere...holding hand each other,
but it still upsetting me to see them like that, when I know they are a muslim.
It isn't the only problem, while the very big problem for me is an Islamic couple.
Its hurt me too much, shameful!!

They use islamic words to make the relationship is right and people who are blind will said...

"suwit nya hangpa dua ni, cinta kerana Allah"

"comelnya, boyfriend dia budak alim"

Try to said like this to me, I'll call one punch man...hah just kidding for peace..
actually, I'm not saying this without fact...I think, mostly know about this.
for me, its happened in front of my eye, not even they are only a pair of lover but also the couple who got engaged are freely hang out together with no doubt.

Sorry for more criticism about what I'm upset for and it hurt you more (who did it),
But you have to realize it.
Satan can do anything to make you fall with sin, even with a good view...Its actually bad.

Reason why its wrong?

I tell you this,
First, we should know the law of ikhtilat.
couple is haraam...
why?
Allah said : "And don't close to zina, for it is an abomination and an evil way" (al-Isra’:32)

Allah said don't close to zina, but they may understand it; "don't fornicate"
No! close to zina means, there is 7 ways of zina where it is the step how people can close with zina.
Look --> Smile --> Say hello or any introductory greeting --> Talk to each other, sharing and caring --> Deal to have a blind date and so on...--> Meet him/her and dating --> Fornicate.

That is why its haraam, Allah said "don't" because Allah planned better and He knows what is good and what is bad for us.

So, for does who are using islamic words to make the haraam relationship looks right, better stop it...
shame on yourself, why you said you love Allah in your prayer but you did what is forbidden by Him. Just a big liar.

"So how I want to get married if I don't know her/him well?"




Assalammualaikum

There is the way...
Firstly, for guys, istikharah before make any decision and before you have high feeling on someone.
istikharah not once but many times. Think deeply about your future whether you want a good family or not.
Prepare yourself with knowledge to teach your family. If you are sure she is your choice, ask her father, friend with her father because father is the only one who can make decision for his daughter. (bukan bodek ye, jangan sogok dengan duit pulak, haha nanti pulak kata aku yang ajar). Then, Taaruf...if you can accept everything about her...ask orang yang berpengalaman untuk tahu step-step seterusnya dan adat istiadat ni.

Secondly, for women, same also, istikharah before make any decision and before you have high feeling on someone, do many times. Prepare yourself for everything and so many things, learn to have a tough heart and be mature...if you like someone, it is not a crime to propose him. Like what Siti khadijah did.
Think the reason, to avoid zina.
I advice you the important part is istikharah. I don't mean, if you like someone, propose him easily without indication from Allah. Not it...

ok done,
actually...I've so many things that disappoint me.
but, I think I must stop here...

take what is good from me, don't take anything bad.
and take care...

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